Negotiation is one of the most important skills in business as well as in life. You can get whatever you want in life if you negotiate well.
So maybe you are a businessman or maybe you are in sales.
Or even day-to-day life.
How do you negotiate so that you can get what you want?
Today I am going to share 3 Powerful Negotiation Secretes.
3 Powerful negotiation secrets
#1 Start with NO
First, you need to detach yourself from the deal. Instead of going into a scenario, going into a negotiation mode that oh I got to close this deal, I have to get this deal.
If you get attached to the deal you will end up reducing the price to get the deal.
The minute you are not attached, the minute you start with no.
You will stick to the price that you want and your chance of winning and getting a deal would be high.
It’s almost like you are going to go well with the deal but at the same time, you are not attached.
It is called a – Walk Away Power.
The minute you say you know what, it would be nice if we do this deal.
But I’m perfectly okay if we don’t do the deal.
So the minute you are okay to walk away from the deal then the other party, the person that you are negotiating with can feel that hey you’re not needy.
You’re not desperate, you’re here to work out a win-win deal.
And that’s very very good. So start with the no in your mind first so you’re not attached.
You need to always find out that – What is the hidden motive of the deal? In the other words –
What motivates this party?
Not what they say –
Why do they want this deal?
What happens in case they don’t get this deal?
They might say they want this, they want that but what is it?
They might say oh I want this price. Anything less than that I’m not going to say yes to.
Well, is it price or is it something else? Could it be that if they don’t do this deal there’s some kind of deadline?
There might be urgency that you may not be aware of. So if you talk a little bit of time and do your research or you ask if you know how to ask good questions. Or you just find out maybe from the people around them what motivates this person?
What are the hot buttons to crack the deal?
Once you find that when you’re going in you are not attached but at the same time you’ve done your homework.
Negotiation very often is about doing your homework right.
Whoever does the most amount of homework about the other person, will have an edge.
Hey, I want this. Well no I’m not going to give you that.
Well, I want this. Well, I’m not going to give you that.
Now you are fighting over this one thing right? It either becomes a yes or no kind of scenario.
Instead, when you are asking for something, ask for the moon meaning this. Let’s say there are three things you want out of this scenario right, out of this negotiation. Don’t ask for three, ask for five or more.
So when you’re negotiating say okay I want one, two, three, four, five, six, seven, eight, I want these things.
The other party will be like, they will freak. They’ll be like no, that’s crazy, I’m not going to give you these things, you’re insane.
There is no way, there’s no deal to be made here. And you’re like well hmm so what could you do?
Well, I’m not going to give you things. The most I could give you is like four things or five things or three things.
Good, because those are the three things that you want in the beginning. So when you ask for the moon, you give them a little bit of leeway to negotiate to kind of haggle right.
To know hey, you’re not going to get it all but if you get half of it, you get one-third of it, you’re happy and that’s what you want in the beginning anyway.
That’s the outcome that you want right. So ask for the moon.
When you go for negotiation you need to practice a lot. Remember – Practice makes a man perfect. You got to practice almost with a straight face right. You got to practice negotiating.
It should be very, very professional right. But also believe that you’re not asking a lot because you’re greedy or anything like that.
It is hey you want to get the best deal right? Everybody wants to get the best deal. But at the same time, once you’ve done your research, you’ve done your homework. You know the motives, what are the motives they have, then you can make it a win.
Because here’s what I did early on in business that I think was wrong. That I was always trying to make it almost like I always win and other people lose.
And you might be able to do that if you have enough power. But the problem is, people, don’t come back.
They don’t want to do business with you again. So you might think you win short term but long term but you don’t get any repeat business.
You don’t get referrals. You won’t have a very good reputation. So at the beginning of my business career, I was a very hard tough negotiator. And now I’m much softer.
I’m much more easygoing because I think now coming from a place of abundance. Hey, you know what, I don’t need to grab all the chips on the table.
I don’t need to win all the time.
I could make it a win-win.
I will not do a deal nowadays if it’s not a win-win.
That if I win, I want you to win.
I want everybody to win.
Because this way then you feel good.
When you feel good about the deal, you’re more likely to do another deal and then another deal and then another deal and another deal right?
So then you’re more likely to do that. So I would say those three secrets combined to always strive for a win-win.
Over to you
So what you can learn from the above is Win-Win or NO Deal.
No deal is a better option than win-lose or lose-win.
I 100% am sure 3 negotiation secrets shared by me will help you in getting and cracking a better deal.
One more piece of advice, whenever you go for negotiation, do read these articles (3 proven secretes of negotiation) one more time and see the difference.
These magical secrets will work for you and you can get what you want from the deal.
Salary Negotiation – You did it, you’ve found your dream job. To find your dream job you have done a lot of hard work. Long phone calls, making a professional resume, submitting it to multiple places, giving dozens of interviews, and finally, you got your dream job.
Wow!
And now you need to negotiate your salary. One of the toughest tasks for many people.
Maybe you are scared, a little bit afraid, a little bit intimidated.
Or maybe you’ve been with the company for some time now for a few years, and now you want a salary hike and you want to talk to your employer about higher pay, a higher salary.
What do you do?
You see most of the information out there is how you negotiate salary from an employer’s perspective.
Today I’m going to do something very different.
I’m going to share the CEO’s perspective on salary rise.
I am going to share how do you negotiate salary?
How do you talk to a CEO, how do you convince a CEO?
How do you read their mind?
You see, the problem with most employees is, that they either ask for a salary increase too soon meaning they have not established a track record, a performance record, or what they have done, too early.
You see you don’t get higher pay because you demand it.
You get higher pay because you deserve it.
Or they ask for it too late, meaning they have been with a company for three, four, five, six, or seven years but very little increase in pay.
So you don’t want to do it too early, you don’t want to do it too late.
Here are 7 salary negotiation tips that will help you to get a salary raise.
Salary Negotiation – 7 Proven Tips for Salary Negotiation
#1 Don’t negotiate your salary in text or email
You see most employees are afraid to talk, they’re afraid to sit down face to face or get on the phone with their employer, or talk about pay increases because they lack confidence, they lack self-esteem.
They make use of e-mail or text messages.
My advice to you is never to use email or text messages for a salary raise.
Why?
You cannot communicate your tone, your emotions, or your body language via text message or e-mail.
So the best thing is to arrange a face-to-face meeting. If face to face meeting. If face to face meeting is difficult arrange for a video call.
In a face-to-face meeting, you can make use of your emotional tonality, and your body language. All these you can use for communication.
You can use your eye contact, to demonstrate, to show your confidence, you need to be confident when you are going into a salary negotiation.
You see, most employees make this mistake, they come to the meeting only with feelings and emotions.
Your manager or CEO is not going to get convinced only by your feelings & emotions.
You need to show facts and figures to get a salary raise.
Most the people say to their managers that –
I feel like I have been around a long time
I feel like I’ve been contributing
I feel like I’ve been working hard, and then
I feel like I deserve more pay.
That does not work, because that’s the feeling.
You need facts and figures.
What have you done?
You should do your research ahead of time. Find out what are some of the contributions you’ve made to the company?
So when you sit down with your employer, you’re not just talking about feelings, you’re presenting, kind of almost like a case, like a lawyer, and let’s say hypothetically you are a Digital Marketing Manager.
You manage the company’s digital marketing & social media account.
You need to go to the Manager or CEO with facts and say since my employment here, here’s what I’ve done.
I have generated revenue worth 1.2 Cr with digital marketing.
I have grown the company’s Facebook account by 39% since I was here.
I have used so and so effective social media strategies that have helped the company to grow its digital presence.
I have saved this much money for the company.
Now the CEO may or may not know these things, so when you present a case, now you’re speaking from facts.
You can also present your future digital marketing strategy.
This is how I’m planning to make the company more money, this is my plan to generate more revenue, this is my plan to bring in more customers, and this is my plan for how I could make things better.
You see the difference. So prepare yourself well for the meeting & yes facts matter the most for salary negotiation and not feelings.
Tip 3 for Salary negotiations.
#3 Ask Questions, Don’t make statements
During a salary negotiation, you don’t just want to keep making statements.
Because it will sound like and feel like you are justifying.
You’re saying, oh, here’s what I’ve done, and here are the things, and here’s what’s going on, and all those are good, you’re presenting your case, but you always want to be asking questions.
Remember – Whoever asks the questions, controls the conversation.
So you want to be asking leading questions, discovery questions, probing questions, you’re asking your employer, by getting more information, by kinda gauging how they’re feeling about the different requests that you might have.
Instead of just making a statement and then it’s very easy to turn into an argument or some kind of conflict when you’re just throwing statements out there.
But when you’re asking questions it would feel much more like a collaborative effort;
Don’t be afraid to set the agenda. What that means is, where is this gonna go,
What is the purpose of this meeting,
What is the outcome,
What are we trying to accomplish?
As an employee, you want to set the agenda, set the tone, right.
What are we trying to accomplish here?
What is the outcome we want from this meeting?
So you could say something like this, Mr. Employer, you know I’m very excited to be joining your company, I’m truly excited about this opportunity, and I look forward, very much look forward to working alongside your amazing team.
Do you mind if we talk about compensation for a second?
Oh, not a problem, shoot.
Talk about compensation.
You see, Mr. Employer, based on my research, for someone with higher, with my background and credentials and my skill sets, the market rate is X-amount of dollars, this much per year.
And then right from there the CEO, the employer, will say well, you know what, yeah that’s kinda what I’m thinking, as well or they might say that’s a little bit more, that’s a little bit higher than what we have budgeted for.
But then you’re not guessing, you’re not afraid to say hey this is what the market rate is, this is what industry rate is, how do you feel about that?
That’s it.
You set the agenda. And you go from there.
#5 Don’t be needy – Needy is creepy
You don’t want to sit down, face to face with your employer, and be all needy about what you want.
That is a big turn-off.
So do not use words like, oh I want, or I need, I see this a lot.
Your job pays you $, a year, and you actually wanna make $, dollars a year.
So there’s a five thousand dollar gap. Instead of saying oh, I need another $, a year for my position, right.
Or I want big vacation pay, I want overtime, or I need this and I need that,
it’s a big turn-off for the employer.
Nobody gives a shit what you need, right.
What you wanna do is you want to ask questions with finesse.
Be on the same page.
A much more powerful thing you could say is,
I would be more comfortable with it.
You see the difference, I want this, I would be more comfortable with it.
So example.
Let’s say the job you want $, and the job pays $, first of all, you could say well, is there any flexibility with that? Is there any flexibility with that?
See how powerful that question is?
And then you could say that, you know I would be, I would be more comfortable with $X a year.
Would you be comfortable with that?
How do you feel about that?
Do you hear the difference?
Don’t be needy and you wanna be neutral, right.
When you’re in salary negotiation you wanna be neutral.
Neutral, you are friendly but you’re firm, you’re not attached.
The key thing is here, not to be attached.
You just, hey, you know what, I’d love to work here, I would love to contribute, just how can we make this work?
Don’t be needy.
#6 Become more valuable
You see most employees, want more pay without becoming more, without adding more value.
They think just by working more hours that’s more value.
Well for certain jobs, like lower-level entry jobs, that might be the case, but for certain higher-level jobs, you’re not getting paid based on hours, you’re getting paid based on results.
What you bring to the company, what you bring to the organization.
So, as an employee, you wanna find ways to always upgrade your skills.
How to become more valuable, what can you bring more to the table?
How you can become competent high-performance employees.
Because good people are hard to find, right.
And as a CEO we look for a return, we call that return on human capital.
If I’m spending a dollar on this employee, how much is this employee bringing in for the company?
If I’m spending a dollar I’m getting a dollar return in revenue, you would do that all day long.
As a CEO I would do that all day long, it’s never a problem.
And it doesn’t matter, I’m not just talking about you are in a position in sales or marketing, in support, admin, operation, PR, research and development, it doesn’t matter, every single person, to me, within my organization, every single person’s in sales.
Every single person is responsible for generating revenue.
Doesn’t matter what it is
Doesn’t matter video production
Doesn’t matter if social media
Doesn’t matter it’s an operation
Every single person’s job is to generate revenue.
Now sometimes you can generate revenue by bringing in more revenue, sometimes you generate revenue by saving money by not being cheap, but eliminating waste.
That’s another way to do it, so you need to find ways to become more valuable.
One of the mistakes that I see a lot of employees make is they approach this scenario with oh I’ve been here for five years, I’ve been here for three years, it doesn’t matter.
It’s not the point. Years don’t equal results.
Just because you’ve been here for a few years doesn’t mean a whole lot.
On the other hand, a new person could come in, and if that person could bring a lot of value to the company, and could generate more revenue, that person would get compensated for that.
So you need to become very, very valuable within the company.
Now if you’re not so sure, sometimes you could ask the CEO, what can I do to bring more value to the company, what can I do?
You’ll be shocked how many times people do not talk to the supervisor, or manager, right.
The CEO, what can I do to bring more value?
They just, they guess, they hope, and they wonder why they do certain things and they don’t feel that they’re being appreciated, because you’re doing things that may not matter to the CEO, right.
I’m talking about becoming more valuable, being more effective, right.
Being able to perform better.
Being able to do that, and then be very clear about what the CEO wants.
Be very clear about what his vision is and how can you solve problems for him or her.
Better yet, how do you solve problems for him or her ahead of time, before even the problem comes up.
If you do that then you don’t just become valuable, you become invaluable to the company.
When you become invaluable to a company, I promise you, pay’s not an issue.
#7 Painting a Picture in the CEO’s Mind
Let’s say you’re sitting down, you’re now negotiating, and you’re getting a no.
The boss, the CEO is saying to you well, I don’t think this is the right time for you to get the pay increase.
Now instead of looking all defeated and saying oh yeah, you know, like, you know, you didn’t get the pay that you want, turn that into a question.
Ask, you know, you need to sell the employer.
What, what is gonna happen.
You can’t just deserve and say oh I want more, remember don’t be needy, what would happen, what would be, what would be his or her expectations.
So I’m gonna role play a little bit with you, okay,
just a scenario.
So let’s say you get a no.
What you wanna say is something like this, Mr. Employer, my goal, my vision for this company here, for this organization is,
I want to be your most valuable team member.
I want to be your most valuable employee.
That my goal is not to be an expense for the company.
I want to be a revenue generator.
I’m gonna make the company five times in return.
I’m here to contribute.
I’m not here to mess around, right.
This is not a job for me, this is a career.
So, Mr. Employer, help me to understand.
Right now I’m making $, a year, and my goal, my goal is to get to $, a year, or $, a year.
Maybe not immediately, maybe there’s a plan.
Can you teach me, can you coach me, can you show me, can you tell me what would it take for me to earn $, a year.
What would be your expectations?
And see the minute you say that, now, the CEO is thinking, wow,
I have got, I have an ambitious person here, who’s hungry for success, who is not just asking because, demanding pay, but it’s like okay, so how can I help this person become more successful?
How can I help this person earn the money that he or she wants to earn?
Now the CEO will tell you,
Well, you know what, I would expect these things to happen.
I would expect these milestones.
I would expect these KPIs.
And then you say well you know what, Mr. Employer, let’s just pretend, suppose I could do this and this and this and this and this and this, everything there you’ve laid out.
So you would be comfortable paying me $, a year if I could do all of that for you, is that what I’m hearing from you.
And he’ll say yeah absolutely, boom, right there, you’ve got the commitment.
Maybe not right now, maybe not right now because you still gotta do these things, right, then all you need to do is ask one simple closing question;
Mr. Employer, let’s pretend I could do all these things, and I’m gonna prove to you I could do all of those and more and exceed your expectations, would you be open to revisiting this day from now?
Now I can book a time with you and sit down and we can, we can talk about this again.
Now, what are they gonna say?
They’ll say absolutely, of course.
Right there, you’ve planted a seed.
Okay, you’re gonna do these things.
And what is gonna happen?
By the time you sit down, you do the same thing again, right.
Then the CEO is helping you to become more successful.
What would it take?
If you’re working for a growing, high-growth company, the opportunities are limitless.
The sky’s the limit.
There’s never a lack of opportunities.
It’s all it takes is your willingness, your ambition, your skills, willingness to go that extra mile, willing to go all in, not to be just a typical, employee mentality but to be a team member, to be a high-performance individual & entrepreneur mentality.
Solving problems before that problem comes up.
You do that, you don’t need to ask, I could tell you, all the techniques, all that is good, you don’t need to ask for higher pay.
If the CEO is truly a good leader the CEO will give you higher pay.
Because you don’t need to ask for it.
Everybody knows the value of a high performer.
Over to you
So those are the seven tips for salary negotiation.
I am 100% sure that these tips for salary negotiation will help you in getting a quick salary raise.
If you find these tips useful make sure to share them with your friends and colleagues on Facebook, Twitter & Linkedin.
Help them to grow financially by getting a salary raise.:)
Types of Income – Do you know how to become rich? Why only few people have become rich and what is that which makes rich people rich?
The thing which makes rich people rich is their actions, their knowledge about money, the way they look at the money the action that they take. That is so different compared to the poor and middle class.
Well, you can also become rich. To become rich you need to follow what rich people are doing? What knowledge they have what actions they are taking and replicate them with your way with the process and system.
Do you know how rich people have become rich? They have become rich as they don’t rely on a single source of income. They build multiple streams of income.
The Income stream the income types that rich people know and poor do not are –
5 Types of Income – How to 5x your income?
#1 Active Income
Active income everybody knows. Most people have it. But what is that rich people know about active income which the poor don’t.
Rich people know that they should stay away from active income.
बहोत दूर जाना है Because active income is nothing but trading time for money.
Meaning in the Bollywood Language– जब तक तेरे पैर चलेंगे…. उसकी सांसे चलेगी….
So it is like जब तक तुम काम करोगे तब तक पैसा आएगा…
जब तक रिक्शा चलेगी तब तक मीटर चलेगा रिक्शा रुकी मीटर रुका पैसे रुके..
This is the worst place to be in.
It is stagnant income and you cannot become rich with stagnant income. Nobody has ever become rich with stagnant income. The only way is to take a quantum leap. The quantum leap is to stay away from active income and adopt other types of income.
#2 Passive Income
Passive income is income where you don’t trade time for money. You trade value for money. It is an income stream that continues although you stop working.
How good it is that you are sleeping at the night and still you are making money? Well is it possible – Yes with passive income.
Remember what warren buffet world’s richest person says about passive income –
If you don’t find a way to make money while you sleep you will work until you die…Wow.. that is so powerful.
There are multiple ways to build passive income such as writing a book, making a video course, creating a music album, and generating royalties. Doing network marketing for passive income.
But you know that you cannot become rich only with a passive income. Hardly two or three people have become a millionaire with passive income. You need smart income to become rich and what is that?
Leveraged Income is the smart income stream that is liked by rich people. This is where you do not trade time for money you do not trade value for money. But you leverage people, systems, and processes of money.
You must heard that पैसा बनाने के लिए पैसा लगता है ……
You need money to make money. But you know what if I tell you that you don’t need money to make money.
If you need money to make money you cannot make a lot of money.
You need to learn How to make money from No money……Interesting right..!
But how to do that?
By leverage. By leveraging the system & processes.
Let me explain this by example.
There was a simple lady who had a dream to become rich. But she had no money.
She was a master at making chocolates. She wanted to start a chocolate business. But chocolate business requires a lot of money for production, packaging, branding, and distribution. Unfortunately, she was broke.
So what she did? She Leveraged…How?
She took the chocolate and thought what if I build a brand that is popular and people buy the chocolate because of my brand.
But to build a brand it may take time becuase of the physical product.
She thought how about if I borrow somebody’s brand. She went with a chocolate and pitched the idea to so many companies saying allow me to use your brand and I will give you this percentage.
A lot of people say no no… one company says yes fine. We will take this much percentage and this is the standard that you need to meet for quantity and quality. So, now she got a brand with packaging.
She took the chocolate packed into the brand and went to investors and factory owners and pitch the idea that here is chocolate backed by a brand and I need this much money for production. A lot of companies said no. One company says yes – production problem solved.
So, she leveraged the brand of others. She leveraged the money of others.
Now it comes to the problem of storage and distribution. She went to a lot of supermarkets and she tied up with them. That she will supply chocolates directly in the bulk and they will use their own facilities, retail shops and then she became a millionaire! Through the leveraged income.
खुद का पैसा डाला नहीं … That means idea can make you money.
A lot of people are stuck ये नहीं…वो नहीं
You know limitations are only in the mind an you can overcome it by any means.
You can use the system, people, and process and you can automate those things.
Yes! You can run your business in auto pilot mode and with the power of leverage income, you can easily become rich.Now let’s talk about the fourth type of income.
The fourth income stream is money income this is where money makes you money.
Not trading time for money.
Not trading value for money.
Not leveraging money.
This is money makes you money.
Examples are stocks, bonds, property, crypto, NFT. You can make money by investing.
But you need money for that.
सबसे बड़ा प्रॉब्लम मिडिल क्लास का क्या है पैसा ही तो नहीं है इन्वेस्ट कहा से करे
So what do we do…when we don’t have money.
Well, I have ब्रह्मास्त्र. The next income stream is my favorite income stream and probably most of the millionaires they love this last income stream which is called –
#5 Brand Income
What is the meaning of brand income? It means you, your name your company name makes you money.
वो कहते है ना नाम ही काफी है – Your name makes you money.
No time for money
No value for money
No leverage for money
No money for money.
It is Name for Money
That means you and your company are so valuable that people pay you money just for your name.
A lot of people think that brand income is only for a big name.
No, my dear friend. You can also become a brand.
You know moneyexcel is a brand which I build and people are ready to pay money for that.
And my dear friend anybody can build a brand income. You only need 1 or 2 years to build your brand – Provided you have passion for it.
But you can only earn money with a brand if your brand is valuable.
How to build brand?
How to become valuable?
How to become rich?
Well, if you are excited to know more about this and want to become rich… join me.. I am going to start an online course that will help you to stay away from active income and build multiple other streams of income.
Which types of Income is liked by you most. How many stream of income you have?
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Don’t think much act now before it is too late.
Act now! And start your journey to become rich.
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